Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Is It Love or Lust

Love and lust is truly blind. If you have both, sexuality becomes a bond rather than a manipulative, controlling tool.

What is the difference between love and lust? Sometimes it's both. This is where it gets tricky.


  • Thinking with the wrong head.
  • Not thinking at all.
  • You don't care about what she has to say.

  • You're obsessed about what she looks like.

  • You only want to be with her for the sex.

  • You think about what's best for you and not for her.

  • You're quick to anger when she says or does something wrong.

  • You look at other women when you're with her.


  • You have great chemistry.

  • You get lost in conversation, hours seem like minutes.

  • You think one another is the best thing since sliced bread.

  • You think she's beautiful.

  • She thinks you're handsome.

  • You include one another in everyday plans.

  • You have fun doing simple things, like going for walks, watching the sunset.

  • You look forward to introducing her to family and friends.

  • You want to spend time together.

  • You don't push the the sexual experience, but wait until you're both ready. Just being with one another is what's important.

  • You see a future together.

  • You feel comfortable and safe with one another.
Love is the most enobling of human emotions. It is trancendental, exalting, and capable of changing us into being better human beings. I highly recommend it!


lightly said...

you do know hate is a combination of both

Pam Beers said...

Scary isn't it!? Nice to hear from you, lightly. See you over at the Pond.