Is It Love or Lust

Love and lust is truly blind. If you have both, sexuality becomes a bond rather than a manipulative, controlling tool.

What is the difference between love and lust? Sometimes it's both. This is where it gets tricky.

Lust:

• Thinking with the wrong head.
  
• Not thinking at all.
  
• You don't care about what she has to say.


• You're obsessed about what she looks like.


• You only want to be with her for the sex.


• You think about what's best for you and not for her.


• You're quick to anger when she says or does something wrong.


• You look at other women when you're with her.

Love:

• You have great chemistry.


• You get lost in conversation, hours seem like minutes.


• You think one another is the best thing since sliced bread.


• You think she's beautiful.


• She thinks you're handsome.


• You include one another in everyday plans.


• You have fun doing simple things, like going for walks, watching the sunset.


• You look forward to introducing her to family and friends.


• You want to spend time together.


• You don't push the the sexual experience, but wait until you're both ready. Just being with one another is what's important.


• You see a future together.


• You feel comfortable and safe with one another.

Love is the most enobling of human emotions. It is trancendental, exalting, and capable of changing us into being better human beings. I highly recommend it!